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☆ voice under all silences ☆"Love is the voice under all silences, the hope which has no opposite in fear; the strength so strong mere force is feebleness: the truth more first than sun, more last than star…" ~ E.E. Cummings ☽☆☾Venuskind

☆ voice under all silences ☆

"Love is the voice under all silences, the hope which has no opposite in fear; the strength so strong mere force is feebleness: the truth more first than sun, more last than star…" 
~ E.E. Cummings 

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☆ 10 if’s for a happy, loving relationship ☆"If you can hold in mind your love for each other and keep that before you at times of great difficulty and in all situations… If you can make being right less important than being connected, and instead work toward harmony and grace… If you can keep your head while everything in you screams for revenge, and come back to the table with compassion and compromise… If your relationship can be your first priority and not last place in your day…. If you can use empathy like a mighty sword to cut through your pain, instead of being like a rock or an island… If you can surrender to your mate when all that is in you wants to leave, yet continue on with consideration and kindness… If you can hear complaints and respond with understanding and not give way to contempt and rage… If you can recognize that conflict is normal and trust is earned, and still be reliable and loving… If you can appreciate that love is not a given but is created from being a loving person… If you can become the person that you most admire and treat the ones you love with kindness and consideration… …You will create a loving relationship”~ Dr. Bill Clokesource: http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/a-cheat-sheet-for-a-happy-loving-relationship-hesaid/☽☆☾Venuskind

☆ 10 if’s for a happy, loving relationship ☆

"If you can hold in mind your love for each other and keep that before you at times of great difficulty and in all situations… 

If you can make being right less important than being connected, and instead work toward harmony and grace… 

If you can keep your head while everything in you screams for revenge, and come back to the table with compassion and compromise… 

If your relationship can be your first priority and not last place in your day…. 

If you can use empathy like a mighty sword to cut through your pain, instead of being like a rock or an island… 

If you can surrender to your mate when all that is in you wants to leave, yet continue on with consideration and kindness… 

If you can hear complaints and respond with understanding and not give way to contempt and rage… 

If you can recognize that conflict is normal and trust is earned, and still be reliable and loving… 

If you can appreciate that love is not a given but is created from being a loving person… 

If you can become the person that you most admire and treat the ones you love with kindness and consideration… 

…You will create a loving relationship”

~ Dr. Bill Cloke

source: http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/a-cheat-sheet-for-a-happy-loving-relationship-hesaid/

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☆ the beloved ☆
when the beloved takes your hand and swirls you around the dancefloor of life… just follow his lead and trust him to catch you if you stumble! 
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the beloved

when the beloved takes your hand and swirls you around the dancefloor of life… just follow his lead and trust him to catch you if you stumble! 

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☆ sustain love over a lifetime ☆"You can connect from all kinds of places- energetic harmony, sexual alchemy, intellectual alignment- but they won’t sustain love over a lifetime. You need a thread that goes deeper, that moves below and beyond the shifting sands of compatibility. That thread is fascination- a genuine fascination with someone’s inner world, with the way they organize reality, with the way they hearticulate their feelings, with the unfathomable and bottomless depths of their being. To hear their soul cry out to you again and again, and to never lose interest in what it is trying to convey. If there is that, then there will still be love when the body sickens, when the sexuality fades, when the perfection projection is long shattered. If there is that, you will swim in love’s waters until the very last breath.” ~ JEFF BROWN☽☆☾Venuskind

☆ sustain love over a lifetime ☆

"You can connect from all kinds of places- energetic harmony, sexual alchemy, intellectual alignment- but they won’t sustain love over a lifetime. You need a thread that goes deeper, that moves below and beyond the shifting sands of compatibility. That thread is fascination- a genuine fascination with someone’s inner world, with the way they organize reality, with the way they hearticulate their feelings, with the unfathomable and bottomless depths of their being. To hear their soul cry out to you again and again, and to never lose interest in what it is trying to convey. If there is that, then there will still be love when the body sickens, when the sexuality fades, when the perfection projection is long shattered. 
If there is that, you will swim in love’s waters until the very last breath.” 
JEFF BROWN

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☆ speaking your truth by jeff foster ☆
„Speak your deepest truth, even if it means losing everything—your pride, your status, your image, even your way of life.

A life of lies and half-truths, the burden of unspoken things, will eventually suffocate you and everyone around you.

Give up everything for a truthful existence. Know that you can only lose what’s non-essential.“

~ Jeff Foster

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☆ speaking your truth by jeff foster ☆

„Speak your deepest truth, even if it means losing everything—your pride, your status, your image, even your way of life.

A life of lies and half-truths, the burden of unspoken things, will eventually suffocate you and everyone around you.

Give up everything for a truthful existence. Know that you can only lose what’s non-essential.“

~ Jeff Foster

image: jmhullot

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☆ one ☆
"The universe is one being. Everything and everyone is interconnected through invisible web of stories. Whether we are aware of it or not, we are all in a silent conversation. Do no harm. Practice compassion."~ Shams e Tabriz

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"The universe is one being. Everything and everyone is interconnected through invisible web of stories. Whether we are aware of it or not, we are all in a silent conversation. Do no harm. Practice compassion."
~ Shams e Tabriz

image: mccarth - silence is golden

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☆ the capacity to be alone ☆"The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person, without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.” ~ Osho☽☆☾Venuskind

☆ the capacity to be alone ☆

"The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person, without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.” ~ Osho

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